Is “life in midlife” (and beyond) sucking the pleasure right out of you? Out of your sex life?
Have you lost that loving feeling for yourself, for your relationship?
Do you struggle with feeling not-so-sexy and don’t have a clue on how to “get your sexy back?”
Hi, I’m Erica. And I’m here to help you get back on track – or get you on board for the first time!
You see, I have a great passion: it’s your pleasure. I want you to experience the ultimate pleasure! I want you to own your pleasure! I want your pleasure to intoxicate you! I want you to be dripping with the most delicious juicy pleasure imaginable!
Am I talking about sex? Absolutely! I mean, don’t get me started. I’m getting all excited just thinking about it…
(But, I’ll save it for later…)
I am also talking about life, in general, pleasure in the little things: radiant sunsets, giggling babies, peppermint hot fcocoa, falling snowflakes, deep conversations, puppy breath, ooey gooey homemade chocolate fudge brownies, a lover’s sensual touch…
Yeah, I mean pleasure in all forms! And we either don’t have time for it, don’t think we deserve it, (or don’t think it’s worthy)… or don’t pay much attention to it at all. Am I right?
We give it lip service but don’t give it the attention, the acknowledgement, it truly deserves. We hurry. We rush. We cram. We don’t linger or lounge. It’s self-indulgent. It’s plain selfish. We just don’t have the time… RUSH, RUSH, RUSH. GO, GO, GO. We are on the hamster wheel of life and have no clue on how to stop. And so we keep going. It’s habitual. It’s just what we do. We know it. It’s easier to do that than do something that is unknown or uncertain. So, we keep going. And if we think we’re doing ok… until it’s clear that we are not!
It’s causing us to become huge stressballs of anxiety. We are depressed. We are angry. We are scared. We are miserable.
What’s the solution to all of this?
Yep, you guessed it… pleasure!
Taking “me” time. Slowing down. Letting go: of control, of our egos. Just being. Not doing. Receiving. Receiving. RECEIVING. (Of course, giving, but only because it is pleasurable, not an obligation).
Well, I’m here to remind you:
Your pleasure if your birthright. Your pleasure is vital for your well-being and health… and for your sexual vitality and fulfillment.
So yeah, I’m a bit obsessed about pleasure.
And I have a pleasure principle.
YOUR PLEASURE IS MY PASSION!