You Were Never Meant to Fade.
You Were Meant to Ignite.
Midlife isn’t the closing of a chapter — it’s the opening of your most radiant one.
Your sensuality still lives within you, powerful and vibrant ready to be awakened.
Your pleasure is not a thing of the past — it’s your birthright, waiting for you to claim it with joy and boldness.
Your confidence isn’t something to chase — it’s already within you, ready to rise.
This is your time to awaken the woman you’ve always been —
Sensual.
Confident.
Unapologetically alive.
Come home to yourself.
Pleasure is The Measure
Your pleasure is my passion.
I’m Erica Lemke — Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, Sexologist, and Author — guiding midlife women and couples to rediscover their sensuality, reclaim their confidence, and embody their pleasure with bold, radiant joy.
You are not broken or behind — you are on the edge of your most powerful awakening.
If you’re ready to explore, embrace, and express the vibrant, sensual life you were always meant to live, I’m here to walk beside you.
What is Sex Coaching?
What is Sexology and Sex Coaching?
Sexology is the study of what people do sexually, and how they feel and think about it. It’s a discipline that explores the depth and breadth of human sexuality with compassion and curiosity.
Sex Coaching, on the other hand, is a client-centered and results-oriented approach that empowers individuals to reach their full sexual potential. It’s a co-creative process that combines self-reflection, self-awareness, and strategic planning with the goal of expanding your sexual horizons. Through sex coaching, you’ll transform your perspective on your own sexuality and discover new possibilities for pleasure, connection, and intimacy.
What's Important to Know About Sex Coaching?
Sex Coaching is a unique approach in guiding clients to experience more (and better quality) sexual fulfillment and pleasure. It’s a space where you can safely be yourself and open up to new possibilities. With the guidance of your coach, you’ll dive deep into your own experience, observe your sexual mindset, and develop a plan to achieve your sexual goals.
Sex coaching is co-creative and future-focused. It is a journey of personal discovery, self-reflection and self-awareness combined with strategic planning and action. You, the client, determine the outcome!
How Much Will This Cost Me?
Current coaching fees for individuals and couples (as of 2025): $190/session for individuals and $240/session for couples. Please inquire about coaching fees for groups, workshops and retreats as these are based on a variety of factors.
What Does Working With Me Look Like?
As your sex coach, I’ll be your partner and guide on this journey of personal growth and discovery. I am also 100% authentically me in this relationship, as I trust you to be, as well. I’ll hold a safe space for you to explore your desires, feelings, and experiences. I’ll help you identify obstacles and develop a plan to overcome them, and provide you with the tools and resources you need to grow. But ultimately, the decisions and choices are yours. I’m here to empower you to make the choices YOU feel right for YOU.
What Kind of Results Can I Expect?
Through this co-creative partnership, you and I will identify what obstacles may be in your way to experiencing sexual fulfillment, enjoyment and pleasure – and we will create an action plan.
You will be committed to your growth. You will be proactive in your efforts. You will do the work that will lead to new perspectives. You will use those skills you’ve acquired to take your sex life to the next level. And you will begin the journey toward sexual empowerment, sexual fulfillment and ultimate pleasure.The tools you learn are lifelong, and life changing. You will set the course for having the sex life you’ve always desired.
Are you ready to reconnect with your sensuality and express your desires with confidence and joy?
Imagine moving through the world feeling fully alive in your body — where your desires are not hidden or questioned, but honored, celebrated, and expressed with radiant self-trust.
Would you love to explore new pathways to deepen your pleasure, intimacy, and connection to yourself?
Beyond the old scripts and outdated expectations, there are infinite ways to awaken your pleasure, to expand your intimacy, and to fall deeply in love with your own body and spirit again.
Can you imagine transforming old patterns into empowered connection — with yourself and with those you love?
When you break free from the stories that once held you back, you make space for real, soulful intimacy — relationships rooted in authenticity, passion, and mutual joy.
If you feel a “yes” stirring within you — a whisper, a pulse, a full-body calling — working with a sex coach could be the transformational next step you’ve been waiting for.
The journey back to your sensual, powerful self begins with one brave, beautiful decision: to say yes to you.
Personal Sex Coaching
My passion is empowering midlife women and couples to reclaim their sensuality, celebrate their desires and live with bold, radiant pleasure.
Together, we rewrite the story of what’s possible — creating lives filled with connection, confidence and unapologetic joy.
Workshops
Step into a supportive, soulfully curated space where we rewrite the old stories about sex, honor our desires without shame, and explore what it means to create a deeply fulfilling, pleasure-filled life in midlife and beyond.
Together, we’ll spark new conversations, normalize asking the real questions, and celebrate the powerful truth:
Your sensuality was never meant to fade — it was always meant to evolve and flourish.
Join us and awaken the vibrant, confident, beautifully expressed version of yourself that’s ready to rise.
Follow along to the blog, read an article or listen in on some podcasts!
Curious to know more?
I’m the founder of The Sensual Salon and a passionate advocate for helping women reconnect with their sensuality, pleasure and power in midlife and beyond.
I’m a Certified Sex & Relationship Coach™ through Sex Coach University and a Board-Certified Sexologist with the American Board of Sexology.
My educational journey includes a master’s degree in Community Counseling (with a Marriage & Family Therapy focus), a bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology and a Certificate in Gerontology — all of which deepen my understanding of how the body, mind and spirit evolve through every chapter of life.
Along the way, I’ve proudly served as a brand representative and educator for überlube, a community sexual health resource for Blue Boutique, and a women’s health specialist for Maven Clinic.
Today, I’m honored to work privately with individuals and couples from my practice in Millcreek, Utah — creating spaces where people feel safe, seen and celebrated.
And, yes — I literally wrote the book on reclaiming sexual confidence.
(Feel Sexy Again: The Ultimate Guide to Reclaiming Your Sexual Confidence.)
Because I believe with every fiber of my being:
Your pleasure, your power and your radiant sensual self are meant to flourish — not fade.
“Erica does an amazing job of reminding women that they hold the power to feeling their own sexiness. I grew up in a culture where women often got their worthiness from men. It’s like they needed a man to push start on their sexiness button! Erica reminds women, that we can feel sexy at any time and can’t access all our senses to do so! This book is a game changer, and I’m so grateful to have the tools and strategies to access my own sexiness.”
“Tired, worn out, giving too much? Most women feel this way, especially in our 40s and 50s. I so hear that, been there, done that. This sweet book is the book to shake it all up! Find your way back to you. This book is a great reminder of who you were before family, husband, and children came into the picture. it is a refreshing book on how to get back to your own spark, change your thought process, and think outside of the box.”
“This book is the perfect guide to reclaim your life and find confidence in yourself. Sometimes we need someone to lead us in the right direction and that’s exactly what this fantastic book is about. I found the tips very helpful and I understand that in order for them to work, I have to be committed. I have to make daily changes. I have to be honest with myself and find my happiness. If you are looking to better your life, this is the perfect book for you.”
Services
Quick Links
Contact
(801) 877-7565
erica@sexcoachslc.com
Uplift Pelvic Health & Wellness
4190 S Highland Drive #221
Salt Lake City, UT 84124